STUPID THINGS
A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE
1)
DARING HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER: You block the door way, and then
dare him to beat you and see what will happen. Lots of women have done this in
the past and they end up regretting it.
It is unwise to do this.
2)
DARING HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN: You will be
making a major mistake if you dare your husband
to sleep with another woman. You may live to
regret it
3)
NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE
IS
MARRIED: “I
am married, who is looking at me” That was the defense of Mrs Layi when she was
confronted for the reason why she dressed so shabbily. It is the mistake of
most careless married
women and it’s a major mistake you can make.
4)
DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY: You are a career woman; you feel
sex in marriage is secondary, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he
is sexually starved and intimacy
famished. His secretary, colleagues, and
girls in church are begging him to come but you padlock your skirt. I can see
danger signal.
5)
LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO CATER FOR: “My friend
please be my eye as I travelled for this one week, help cater for my husband
and my little kids” That was Mrs Rosa when she made the journey she will later regret
all her
life. By the time she came back her friend had really helped her by sleeping with
her husband. She
later eloped with the man, leaving her own husband
and two children. It is very stupid to commit
your husband into the
hands of your beautiful and very active but
Godless friend.
6)
LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER HOUSE MAID: Your maid is
the one that cooks, cleans the house, and cares for the children and your
husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone since the arrival of the maid, all you do is to
shout and
back orders, nobody will snatch your husband you are the one graciously giving
him to those that need him.
7)
EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED LADY AS A MAID: She is
fully grown, well-endowedin the back and very tantalizing in the front, dresses like an
actress, cat walks like a model and that is your own house maid? What a mistake!
8)
EMPLOYING HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN HER: Employing a
house girl more
beautiful than them is a major technical mistake most women make. In the process many of them
used their money to employ a rival for themselves. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid.
9)
USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND: Your husband
is growing; you are sitting down at home eating. He is dressing like a guy
with jeans
and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that you are a married woman. Your
husband is on twitter,
facebook, whatshap, skype etc; the only thing you know about phone is to receive and make call.
Your husband is talking about stock market; you only talk about tomato market. He is talking about
Forex; you are talking about fruit and vegetables.
10)
FAILING TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD: A wife won’t
do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God
regularly. Don’t
make this mistake, be prayerful, hand over your family to God. May you never labor in vain!
11)
FIGHTING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW: You may fight your Mother-in-law dirty and think you can win, you will
end up losing. Her son and herself have been friends and lovers for years; may
be before you were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband and also the
first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce her and she is more experienced than
you in matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many conflicts.
12)
TELLING HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER SEX LIFE: When you tell your friend about your sex life
she can size
you up and know whether your husband is hot or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not.
She can
even know your husband “turn on” and use it against him and grab your husband. Most women have
carelessly lost their husband as they complain to their friends “my husband is too
demanding, he does
not know anything but sex, I’m not a horse, I can’t kill myself” A friend will
pick information like this and cover things up where you’ve been failing.
13)
REPORTING HER HUSBAND TO HIS MUM: It looks beautiful to report your
husband to his Mum, but the end result will end up hurting you. Most mothers will
support their sons any day; children are always right before their Mothers.
Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum.
14)
LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF THEIR HUSBANDS: Many wives
do abandon their
husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon
as babies begin to arrive. To sleep in bed, they put the Baby between themselves and their husband,
making the man to feel lost in his own house.
15)
USING SEX WRONGLY: Sex is supposed to bind you together, it supposed to create
intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention. Some women do
turn sex to a tool of manipulation; some use it for trade by barter. Some wives
will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for sex,
ordering the man around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and
check whether our children are sleeping” this is very bad. Some wives sleep like
log of wood in bed while some even wear jean knickers to bed. If you continue
like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you will be the loser so
change your ways.
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5 comments:
Like the write up sir, it was as if u know what is happening in my marriage , my wife who use to adore my parent be4 i married her has turn my parents especially my mother to evil mother , i don't want to use a dirty language here, i will share it on her facebook for her to read, but she is very stubborn , pray she will read digest it and make use of it . Thank u sir
This will be fine if our wife can read this and make use of it . Thanks , God bless
Mine own is now born again when i diced to put her in her own shell .
Not until they see that u are blessed beyond their imagination , they will still misbehave . may God forgive them .
I have made up my mind to marry another woman which i even know is not the best. But she push me to the wall. I now have peace of mind, and she only see me whenever i want to see her. she made me to do that.
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